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CHANCE TO WIN APPLE AIRPODS
This opportunity is not just for students in relationships, but students in friendships as well. I highly advise all middle and high school students to take advantage of this free Zoom session. It helps you to learn what to look for in terms of warning signs and red flags that a friendship or partnership may be unhealthy. It will also help you learn what to do if you are already in that situation.
Oftentimes subtle forms of relationship abuse can be written off as "they just love me so much" or "it's only because I worry about you". Check this out to see if you have had any of these experiences.
Resource: Virtual Teen Dating Violence Prevention event for middle/high school youth and their parents.
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Hot Topic
Cancel Culture
Cancel culture is removing or withdrawing support from companies or individuals who have said, done, or posted something offensive and/or problematic
Why do it? What's the benefit?
Canceling someone/something can be a highly effective component of social change. It can force a company or individual to re-evaluate, take a look inward, and even make changes to their own behaviors, where they throw their support, or business models.
Great. Is there a downside?
Absolutely. There are a few.
- Influence: some individuals (such as celebrities) hold an influence over many. When a person of influence "cancels" someone/thing over a personal issue, their followers can take it on as their own and snowball it. Social media also makes people feel more connected to famous people and they tend to behave in mimicry or solidarity.
- For example: Taylor Swift fans (Swifties) have taken to "canceling" some of her ex-partners and in addition to withdrawing support and fandom, they have sent death threats to these ex-partners - Purpose: a likely well intentioned boycott/protest used to catalyze change has become used to also isolate and bully. Teens will cancel a peer through unfollowing on social media, blocking on social media/text, ignoring in school (freeze outs), putting them on blast (call out/call in), and more. It is used to shame, embarrass, and isolate a person. During the teenage years, this can be not only harsh but traumatizing. It can lead to depression and suicidality that lasts long after the initial "canceling".
- Development: speaking up against bullying, racism, sexism, and other unacceptable behaviors is important. Youths should not be afraid to step out of a bystander role and stand up for equality and justice. However, youths should also be allowed to make mistakes. The human brain won't be fully developed until 26-27yrs old. Teenagers' brains are still developing, they are beginning to set identities, values, and beliefs outside of what their caregivers' are, in comparison to peers and society, and all while still being impressionable young minds craving acceptance and approval. To be cancelled as a youth can have devastating impacts. Cancel culture removes the ability to re-evaluate and apologize, to make mistakes, to disagree, to learn forgiveness and empathy.
What do we do?
Easy! Talk to your kids/students. Help kids understand the consequences of the cancel culture behavior. Ask them to step into the other person's shoes. Talk about what it means to disagree, to have empathy, to see multiple perspectives, and to forgive. Remind students how quickly it becomes cyberbullying and to use good digital citizenship - even when passionate for change! Use the THINK model for posting online. If the youth is cancelling others, ask why. Ask if they tried other approaches first. Is there something cancelling gives them? A rewarding feeling? Self-esteem? Power? If your youth is the one being cancelled, give them a judgement free outlet to talk about what happened, their experience, how they feel, what they wish was different, and then help them with conflict resolution strategies and ahow to apologize meaningfully.
What's in the SAC office?
What resources can the student or caregiver find?
Eating disorders, cancer impact support, LGBTQ+ specific cancer resources, HIV/AIDs, vaping/e-cigs, stress, mental/behavioral health programs, panic disorder, teen depression, men's depression, women's depression, OCD, ADHD, PTSD, addiction, cannabis, alcohol, opioids, inhalants, stimulants, prescription drugs, nicotine, disaster, how to talk to teens about (vaping, marijuana, opioids, alcohol), wallet cards for mental health hotlines, & more.
If you'd like samples of any of these, please do not hesitate to reach out. These resources are totally free and I am always happy to provide info books, pamphlets, and more.
Ask your doctor about....
EVALI
15% of these Evali patients were less than 18 years old.
Symptoms:
- Shortness of breath
- Cough
- Chest pain
- Fever and chills
- Diarrhea, nausea, vomiting, and abdominal pain
- Rapid heartbeat
- Rapid and shallow breathing
Treatments may include:
- Corticosteroids. A type of medication that reduces inflammation in the lungs and throughout the body.
- Supportive care. Patients may receive supplemental oxygen through a nasal cannula. In more severe cases, they may be put on a mechanical ventilator or an extracorporeal membrane oxygenation machine.
- Antibiotics. These drugs may be given to the patient while diagnostic test results are being finalized as it’s difficult to distinguish EVALI from bacterial infections.
- Antivirals. Because EVALI causes similar symptoms to some viral infections, antivirals may be used, especially during influenza season.
(thanks Yale Medicine https://www.yalemedicine.org/conditions/evali)
Teen Mental Health Temperature Check
According to the CDC:
- In 2019, suicide was the 2nd leading cause of death in young people, 10th leading cause in nation overall.
- 47,500 deaths by suicide in 2019, which about one death every 11 minutes - this does not include thoughts and attempts
- 12 million adults seriously thought about suicide
- 3.4 million made a plan for suicide
- 1.4 million attempted suicide
Being Proactive For Yourself
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This is a Truth course supported by EverFi and monitored by our district SAC (me).
**Disclaimer**
They do provide a lot of free information and resources that I share when appropriate.
Haddonfield School District SAC - Holly Penna
Email: hpenna@haddonfield.k12.nj.us
Website: https://haddonfieldschools.org/
Location: A104 HMHS
Phone: 856-429-3960 . 1155