Dr. Bruce Perry teaches us that brain function is sequential, so children need to regulate before they can relate to others and regulate and relate before they can reason or learn. This may be helpful in creating a daily routines while at home for long periods of time.
Regulate: First, in order to regulate our basic needs must be met. Make sure children have access to nutritious food, snacks and water. Movement is important, so weave in dancing, walking, swinging. Integrate outside time when possible. If a child is dysregulated, (upset, worried, distant), support them by being present without judgement. Cold water, snacks, moving to a different setting (from inside to outside) can re-set the brain.
Relate: Second, Make time for talk time or joint activities like reading books, playing simple games, cooking together etc.
Reason: Last, once children are regulated and know that you are their safe harbor they can learn. Build in academic time each day that is balanced with regulation and relationship building time.
Remember build from the bottom up - first basic needs, comfort and connectedness, then learning.
